When he was mayor of New York City, Ed Koch would routinely ask his constituents, "How am I doing?" It became his catchphrase. He really wanted to know what was working -- and what wasn't.
You should be asking the same question about your public speaking. You're devoting a significant chunk of time to talking to key audiences about important things. So, how are you doing?
Here's a good way to find out. Watch video of you giving a speech. This is the real you -- the way others see you. What you see on the screen is the bare, unvarnished truth that answers the question, "How am I doing?"
Sit in front of the TV screen with the remote and a notepad. When you see or hear something that just isn't right, hit the "stop" button and write down the problem.
Take in everything you do. Does your voice sound natural and conversational? Are you using "fill-in" words? Do you look comfortable? Are you talking to the audience -- or reading to them? Is your content easy to follow? Are you highlighting the main points you want the audience to remember? Are you enthusiastic about your big ideas? Would you spend time listening to a speech given by this person?
Watching yourself with an honest, objective eye is not easy. It's tough to face concrete proof that things are not working. But this is how you'll get better as a speaker.
A camcorder and you will produce the best constructive criticism you'll ever get.
When it comes to criticizing your speech, everyone else -- and I mean everyone -- has an agenda. For example, if someone on your staff gives you a completely honest, straightforward critique of your latest speech, immediately call 911. This person has a death wish and needs urgent medical care.
How are you doing as a speaker? The truth is out there. Watch the tape and learn.
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